Renowned chef Xolani Sabelo has deactivated his social media accounts amidst ongoing marital controversy with his wife, Ingane Zesthembu star Vuyokazi Nciweni. The decision follows recent revelations and statements from both parties, with Xolani claiming he was pressured into paying lobola, a claim that has fueled public speculation and debate.
In response, Vuyokazi released an emotional statement, addressing the situation and the toll it has taken on her. She expressed her heartbreak over the public scrutiny of her private life and conveyed how deeply affected she is by the accusations made by her husband.
“Recent events have deeply affected me,” Vuyokazi shared. “I am a woman who values authenticity and privacy, yet I continually find my personal life in the public domain, especially regarding my relationships. These accusations have revealed a side of him I was previously unaware of—or perhaps chose not to see.”
Vuyokazi acknowledged the outpouring of support from friends, family, and fans, noting that their empathy has given her strength. She also appealed for understanding, reminding the public of the emotional toll such matters can take on those involved.
“While some may view this as entertainment, behind every headline is a person—a woman who only ever wanted love,” she said. “I stand here heartbroken and disillusioned, coming to terms with the painful reality of being let down once again.”
She expressed solidarity with others who have faced betrayal or heartbreak, extending her empathy to those who have endured similar pain. In closing, she requested privacy as she navigates this challenging period, stating that she will not be making further comments on the matter.
Vuyokazi’s heartfelt message highlights the personal anguish behind the headlines and serves as a reminder of the importance of empathy in the face of public scrutiny.
